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Buying in Charlotte, in order.From the first conversation to the keys: what you send and sign, and what I handle.

Every step from the first conversation to the keys, what you send and sign at each one, and what I handle so you don't have to. North Carolina does a few things its own way: a due diligence fee, a due diligence period, and a closing run by an attorney. This guide walks you through all of it.

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By Eridania M. Bonilla, NC Broker · Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Paracle · updated 31 October 2026

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The short answer

Buying here runs in nine steps. The two that surprise people from other states are the due diligence fee and period: you pay the seller a negotiated fee for a negotiated window to inspect, appraise and walk away for any reason, and the fee is generally not refunded.

Everything else is the work of a good team: a lender, a licensed inspector, an attorney who runs the closing, and a broker who keeps every date. You send and sign; I handle the rest, and you always know what comes next.

North Carolina practice per the Offer to Purchase and Contract (Form 2-T) and the official consumer brochures in the guide's appendix.

Step by step

9 steps, one calendar.

0 of 9 steps done

  1. We agree the brief before we look at a single house: who decides, the price ceiling, the must-haves, the deal-breakers and the longest drive you will accept. A clear rule ("if we find a home with these three things, we move forward") is what keeps a search from stalling.

    You send and sign

    • Share your brief and your timing
    • Tell me who else decides
    • Sign the buyer agreement (required before touring since August 2024)

    I handle

    • Match the brief to the parts of Charlotte that fit it
    • Explain how buyer-agent compensation works and is negotiated
    • Set up a search that sends you only homes that fit

  2. A lender's pre-approval (or a bank letter showing funds, if you are paying cash) tells you the price you can really pay and tells sellers you are ready. It also starts the documents your loan will need later.

    You send and sign

    • Send the lender your income, asset and ID documents
    • Ask for a pre-approval letter you can share

    I handle

    • Introduce lenders who close on time here
    • Translate the pre-approval into a monthly payment on real streets

  3. We tour homes that fit the brief and ask the same five questions at every door: what I think of the price, days on market, the HOA and what it covers, why the seller is moving, and today's rate. Then we compare them side by side.

    You send and sign

    • Tour, take notes, and say what you felt in each house
    • Drive the commute at the hour you will drive it

    I handle

    • Pull the price history and the sales around each home
    • Find out what the listing does not say
    • Keep a running comparison so the choice is clear

  4. Offers here use the North Carolina Offer to Purchase and Contract (Form 2-T). Five terms carry it: the price, the due diligence fee, the earnest money deposit, the length of the due diligence period, and the settlement (closing) date. All five are negotiable.

    You send and sign

    • Decide your price and terms with me
    • Sign the offer electronically

    I handle

    • Build the offer from the recent sales, not the asking price
    • Negotiate terms as well as price
    • Present the offer and keep the counteroffers moving

  5. Once the seller signs, your due diligence period starts. The due diligence fee goes to the seller and the earnest money goes to the escrow agent, by the dates the contract sets. From here, the clock matters.

    You send and sign

    • Deliver the due diligence fee and the earnest money on time
    • Apply for the loan

    I handle

    • Send the signed contract to your lender and attorney the same day
    • Put every deadline on one calendar you can see

  6. A home inspector licensed by the North Carolina Home Inspector Licensure Board reviews the structure and systems. Many buyers add a wood-destroying insect report, and a septic inspection where the home has one. You may ask the seller to make repairs, but the seller is not required to.

    You send and sign

    • Attend the inspection if you can
    • Read the whole report, not only the summary
    • Decide what matters to you

    I handle

    • Book inspectors and specialists for you
    • Write and negotiate the repair request
    • Arrange the re-inspection of finished repairs

  7. Your lender orders the appraisal and underwrites the loan; your attorney searches the title. If the appraisal comes in under the price, there is a second negotiation, and the due diligence period is when you still have the most room to act.

    You send and sign

    • Answer the lender's document requests quickly
    • Choose your closing attorney

    I handle

    • Track the appraisal and underwriting with the lender
    • Negotiate if the appraisal comes in low
    • Keep the attorney, lender and listing agent on the same dates

  8. Before the period ends you decide: go forward, agree an extension with the seller in writing, or terminate. Ending the contract within the period returns your earnest money; the due diligence fee generally stays with the seller. After the period, your right to end the contract is limited.

    You send and sign

    • Make the decision before the deadline
    • Sign any extension or termination in writing

    I handle

    • Walk through every open item with you before the deadline
    • Draft and deliver the extension or notice

  9. You receive your Closing Disclosure at least three business days before closing. You do a final walk-through, set up the utilities and change your address. A North Carolina attorney runs the closing, and the keys are yours once the deed is recorded.

    You send and sign

    • Review the Closing Disclosure
    • Wire funds only after confirming the instructions by phone with your attorney
    • Set up utilities and mail

    I handle

    • Book the final walk-through
    • Confirm every figure with the attorney and lender
    • Hand you the keys
Checklists

Tick it off, in order.

Your ticks stay on this device. Send me the list any time and I'll pick up from where you are.

Before you tour

5 checks

During due diligence

8 checks

Closing week

6 checks
Email me my checklist →eri@hausofsanctuary.com
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The printed guide

Keep it, print it, forward it.

The same steps as a designed guide, with the checklists, the questions people ask and your brief to fill in before our first conversation, plus the official consumer brochures, reproduced as published.

  • 9 steps, with what you do and what I handle
  • Three checklists
  • Your brief
  • NC REALTORS® due diligence brochure and the NCREC home inspection Q&A
Download the PDF →The Charlotte Seller's Guide
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You send and sign. I handle the rest, and you always know what comes next.
Eridania M. Bonilla, NC Broker, REALTOR®Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Paracle · 25 years in brand and marketing, eight of them in New York commercial real estate · Charlotte, four years
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Questions

The questions people type.

What is a due diligence fee?

A fee you pay the seller directly for the right to investigate the home and end the contract during the due diligence period for any reason or no reason. The amount is negotiated in the offer. If you end the contract, it generally stays with the seller; it is credited to you at closing if you buy.

How long is the due diligence period?

There is no standard length; it is negotiated between buyer and seller. It should be long enough for your inspections, any repair negotiation and your loan, including the appraisal. The NC REALTORS® consumer brochure at the back of this guide explains it.

Is the earnest money refundable?

If you end the contract before the due diligence period ends, your earnest money deposit is refunded. After the period, your right to end the contract because of what your investigation found is limited, and the contract says what happens to the deposit.

Who pays for the inspections?

The buyer pays for the inspections, tests and appraisals they choose, unless the contract says otherwise. Book them early in the period so there is time for repairs.

Does the seller have to make repairs?

No. You can ask, and many sellers agree to some repairs or a price change, but the seller is not required to.

Who runs the closing?

In North Carolina, an attorney you choose runs the closing, searches the title and records the deed. I will introduce attorneys my clients have used.

Who pays the buyer's agent?

Since 17 August 2024 you sign a written agreement with your buyer's agent before touring, and it states the compensation, which is negotiable. Sometimes the seller pays part or all of it; we agree how it works before we start.

Every number on this page, and where it came from
  1. Offer to Purchase and Contract (Standard Form 2-T), jointly approved by NC REALTORS® and the North Carolina Bar Association. Read Oct 2026.
  2. NC REALTORS®, Risk Management Tools, "Due Diligence Period: Consumer Version" (paragraphs 1(j), 1(h) and 4, Form 2-T). Read Oct 2026.
  3. North Carolina Home Inspector Licensure Board and North Carolina Real Estate Commission, "Questions and Answers on: Home Inspections". Read Oct 2026.
  4. Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Regulation Z §1026.19(f): the Closing Disclosure must be received at least three business days before consummation. Read Oct 2026.
  5. National Association of REALTORS®, practice changes effective 17 August 2024: a written agreement with a buyer's agent before touring; compensation is negotiable. Read Oct 2026.
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